Fiqh 4.60: Not Attending a Funeral due to Some Forbidden Acts
The author of Al-Mughni said: "If one sees or hears something that
is forbidden while attending a funeral, and one is capable of countering
and rectifying it, one should do so. If not, then one may do one of two
things: voice his disapproval of it, and continue with the funeral which
will free one from any responsibility of any such disapproved acts, without
abandoning the good for the bad. The second course open to a person in
such a case is to leave the funeral procession, especially when one is
able to leave it, so that one's continued participation will not lead
one to hear or see a forbidden thing."
Fiqh 4.61: Burial is a Collective Obligation
There is a consensus that burying a dead body and covering it is a collective
obligation (fard kifayah). If some Muslims bury the dead body, it would
absolve the rest of them from this obligation. Allah, the Almighty, says:
"Have We not caused the earth to hold within itself the living and
the dead?" Qur'an 77.25-26
The majority of scholars are of the opinion that it is permissible to
bury the dead anytime during the day or night. The Prophet, peace be upon
him, buried at night a man, who used to remember Allah aloud during the
night. Similarly 'Ali buried Fatimah at night. Abu Bakr, 'Uthman, 'Aishah,
and Ibn Mas'ud were buried during the night as well.
Ibn ' Abbas reported: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, went into
a grave one night and was given a lamp. Then he lifted the body from the
side toward the qiblah, saying: "May Allah be merciful to you. You
used to cry a lot and often recited the Qur'an." After this the Prophet,
peace be upon him, said four takbirs."(Reported by Tirmizhi, who
considers it a sound hadith) Tirmizhi said: "Most scholars consider
the burial of the dead at night permissible, provided the rights of the
deceased are not neglected.
The same applies to offering a funeral prayer for the deceased. The Prophet,
peace be upon him, commanded his followers not to bury the deceased at
night if it is feared that any of his rights might be neglected. Night
time burial in such a case is disliked.
One day the Prophet, peace be upon him, delivered a sermon and mentioned
one of his companions who had died and had been wrapped in a short shroud
and buried during the night. The Prophet, peace be upon him, expressed
his disapproval of burying someone at night unless one is compelled to
do so. (Muslim) Jabir reported that the Prophet, peace be upon him, said:
"Do not bury your dead during the night unless you are compelled
to do so." (Ibn Majah)
Fiqh 4.62: Burial at Sunrise, at Midday, or at Sunset
There is a consensus that a body may be buried during any of these three
times whenever there is danger of it decomposing otherwise. If there is
no such danger, its burial during these times is still permissible, according
to the majority of scholars, provided that it is not done so on purpose,
as reported by Ahmad, Muslim, and the compilers of Sunan on the authority
of 'Uqbah who said: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, forbade us from
offering prayer or burying our dead at three times: at sunrise, until
the sun rises high in the sky; at noon, when the sun is above one's head
until it declines a little; and when the sun begins to go down until it
sets." The Hanbali school holds that in light of the above hadith
burial during these times is undesirable without exception.
Fiqh 4.62 a: Digging a Deep Grave is Desirable
The purpose of burial is to hide the body in a pit in order to prevent
its stench from fouling the atmosphere, and to save it from being eaten
by various beasts and birds. If these conditions are met and this purpose
is served, then one has carried out one's responsibility . It is encouraged,
however, to make the depth of the grave equal to the height of an average
man. This is based on a hadith reported by Nasa'i and Tirmizhi (who considers
it a sound hadith) from Hisham ibn 'Amer who said: "We complained
to the Prophet, peace be upon him, on the day of the battle of Uhud, saying:
'O Allah's Messenger! Digging a separate grave for every body is a very
hard job.' The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: 'Dig, dig deeper, dig
well, and bury two or three bodies in each grave.' The Companions asked
him: 'Who should be put in the graves first?' The Prophet, peace be upon
him, said: 'Put those most learned in the Qur'an first.' My father, the
narrator added, was the third of the three who were put in one grave."
Ibn Abi Shaibah and Ibn Al-Munzhir reported that 'Umar said: "Dig
a grave deep enough for a man's height and make it broader." According
to Abu Hanifah and Ahmad the grave should be deep enough for half of the
average height of a man, but if dug deeper, it is better.
Fiqh 4.62 b: A Lahd is Better than an Ordinary Grave
Lahd is a crevice on the side of a grave facing the qiblah, which is
covered with unburnt bricks like a house with a roof. A regular grave,
on the other hand, is a pit dug in the ground, with the body placed in
it and then sealed off with unburnt bricks and covered to form a ceiling.
Either of these two methods is permissible, but the first one--lahd--is
preferable in the light of a hadith reported by Ahmad and Ibn Majah on
the authority of Anas who said: "When the Prophet, peace be upon
him, died, there were two grave diggers. One usually dug the lahd and
the other a regular tomb-like grave. The Companions said: 'Let us seek
guidance from our Lord.' Then they asked each of them to dig a grave,
and decided the grave of the one who finished first be chosen for the
burial of the Prophet's remains. The one who dug the lahd finished first,
so they buried the remains of the Prophet, peace be upon him, in a lahd."
This hadith shows that both forms are permissible. The fact that the
lahd is preferable is indicated by a tradition transmitted by Ahmad and
the Compilers of the Sunan on the authority of Ibn 'Abbas who reported:
"The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: 'Lahd is for us, and digging
a pit (i.e., a regular grave) for others."'
Fiqh 4.63: Placing a Body in the Grave
It is sunnah to place a body in the grave with its feet first, if this
is possible and can be done easily. This is based on a hadith reported
by Abu Daw'ud, Ibn Abi Shaibah, and Al-Baihaqi that Abdallah ibn Zaid
placed a body with its feet first in the grave and said, "This is
sunnah." If this is not easy, then a body could be placed in the
grave in any manner possible.
Ibn Hazm said: "A body may be placed in the grave in any manner
possible, from the direction of the qihlah, or from a direction opposite
to it, with its head first, or with its feet first, for there is no explicit
instruction regarding this in the texts."
An-Nawawi said: "You should know that the right manner of accompanying
a funeral procession is to remain quiet, as the pious among the previous
generations of Muslims did. One should not raise one's voice for recitation
or for the remembrance of Allah, or for anything else. Keeping quiet is
better and is helpful in concentrating one's attention on the funeral
rites, which is needed at that time. This is the correct position, and
the fact that a large number of people do otherwise does not change it.
There is a consensus among scholars that the way ignorant people recite
in the funeral processions, artificially prolonging sounds of various
words and mixing them up, is forbidden.
Fiqh 4.63 a: Placing the Body Facing the Qiblah, Praying for the Deceased,
and Loosening the Shroud
The practice of the learned ones has been to place the body on its right
side facing the qiblah. The person placing the body in the grave should
say: "In the Name of Allah, and in accordance with the tradition
of Allah's Messenger, peace be upon him. " Then he should loosen
the shroud. Ibn ' Umar reported that when a body was placed in the grave,
the Prophet, peace be upon him, used to say: Bismillah wa 'ala sunnat
rasulillah. "In the name of Allah, and in accordance with the tradition
of Allah's Messenger or the practice of Allah's Messenger." (Reported
by Ahmad, Abu Daw'ud, Tirmizhi, Ibn Majab and Nasa'i, who transmitted
it both as a mauquf hadith (its chain of transmitters stopping at a Companion),
and as a musnad (uninterruptedly from the Prophet himself)).
Fiqh 4.63 b: Placing Clothes in the Grave is Disliked
The majority of jurists dislike the idea of placing a garment, a pillow,
or the like for the deceased in the grave. Ibn Hazm, however, sees nothing
wrong in placing a piece of garment under the body in the grave, in light
of a hadith reported by Muslim from Ibn 'Abbas who said: "A red piece
of cloth was placed in the grave of the Prophet, peace be upon him."
Ibn Hazm says apparently it was Allah's Will to permit them to do so,
because His Prophet, the innocent and guiltless, and others who practiced
it were, according to the consensus, indeed the best of men, and none
of them ever objected to it."
The scholars consider it desirable, however, for the head of the deceased
to be placed on a brick, a stone, or on the ground with his right cheek
on a brick or some other similar thing, and with his shroud removed from
his face so that his left cheek is open to the soil. 'Umar advised his
heirs: "After having placed my body in the grave, leave my cheek
open to the soil." Similarly Ad-Dahak in his will gave instructions
that his shroud should be untied and his cheek exposed. It is preferred
if something, some bricks or stones or soil, is placed to support the
body so as not to leave it flat on its back.
Abu Hanifah, Malik, and Ahmad hold that a piece of cloth may be spread
over a female body, but not over a male body, when lowering it into the
grave. The Shafi'i school, however, is of the opinion that doing so is
desirable for both male and female.
Fiqh 4.64: Throwing Three Handfuls of Soil over the Grave
It is desirable to encourage those attending the burial to throw three
handfuls of soil over the grave from the head of the body. This is based
on a hadith by Ibn Majah which says: "The Prophet, peace be upon
him, once offered a funeral prayer and then went to the deceased's grave
and threw three handfuls of soil from near the deceased's head."
Abu Hanifah, Ash-Shafi'i, and Ahmad hold that when throwing the first
handful one should say, "Of this (i.e. the earth) We created you,"
and on the second one should say, "And to it shall We cause you to
return," and on the third handful one should say, "And of it
We shall cause you to be resurrected a second time." This is based
on a hadith that the Prophet, peace be upon him, said this when his daughter
Umm al-Kulthum was laid in her grave. Ahmad said: "Nothing is required
to be said while throwing handfuls of soil over the grave because this
is a weak hadith.
Fiqh 4.64 a: Praying for the Deceased After its Burial
After the burial, it is desirable to pray for forgiveness of the deceased
and acceptance (of his conduct by Allah), because at this time he is being
questioned about his life. It is reported by 'Uthman: "After burial
the Prophet, peace be upon him, would stand by the grave of the deceased
and say: "Seek forgiveness for your brother and pray for his acceptance,
because he is now being questioned about it." (This hadith is reported
by Abu Daw'ud and al-Hakim, who considers it a sound hadith. Al-Bazzar
says: "This is the only report from the Prophet (peace be upon him)
on this subject.) Ruzain reported: "After the deceased was buried
'Ali used to pray: 'O Allah! This is Your servant, who is now a guest
of Yours, and You are the best host. Forgive him, and expand the entrance
into heaven for him." Ibn 'Umar liked to recite the first and the
last few verses of Surah AlBaqarah by the grave after the burial was over.
(Reported by Al-Baihaqi with a sound chain of narrators.)
Fiqh 4.65: Prompting the Deceased After the Burial
Ash-Shafi'i and some other scholars prefer that a deceased (A deceased
if he or she is an adult, but not in the case of a child) be "prompted"
after the burial. This is based on a report by Sa' id ibn Mansur from
Rashid ibn Sa'd and Damarah ibn Habib and Hakim ibn 'Umair. They said:
"After the grave is leveled and the people leave, one should stand
by the grave and say three times to the deceased: 'O so-and-so, say: "There
is no god but Allah, I bear witness that there is no god but Allah",'
'O so-and-so, say: "Allah is my Lord, Islam is my din, and Muhammad
is my prophet." ' And then one should leave the site." This
is reported, without any comment, by Al-Hafiz in his book Al-Talkhis.
At-Tabarani reported that Abu Amamah said: "When one of your brethren
passes away and you have leveled the ground over his grave, you should
stand by the grave's head and say: 'O so-and-so, son of so-and-so,' for
the deceased will hear him, but he cannot respond. Then he should say
'O so-and-so, and son of so-and-so, whereby the deceased will sit up in
his grave. Then he should say: 'O so-and-so, son of so-and-so, at which
the deceased says: "Guide me, may Allah be merciful to you,' but
you cannot hear him. Then he should say to the deceased: 'Remember the
faith with which you left this world, and remember to bear witness that
there is no god but Allah and Muhammad is His servant and Messenger, and
remember that you have accepted Allah as your Lord, Islam as your religion,
Muhammad as your Prophet and the Qur'an as your guide. ' At this Munkar
and Nakir (the two angels appointed to question the people in the graves)
will hold each other's hand and say: 'Let us go! Why should we sit for
a person who has been taught this."' A man asked: "O Allah's
Messenger! What if one did not know the name of the deceased's mother?"
The Prophet, peace be upon him, replied: "In such a case, one should
call him by his first mother, Eve, and say: 'O so and so, O son of Eve).''
(Al-Hafiz in his book Al Talkhis said that the chain of narrators of this
hadith is sound. Ad-Diaya' in his Al-Ahkam has also described it as a
sound hadith. There is in its chain of narrators one called 'Asim ibn
Abdullah who is a weak narrator.) Haithami refers to this hadith and says
there are some narrators in its chain whom he did not know as trustworthy.
An-Nawawi said: "The above hadith, even if it is a weak one, would
be considered a source of reference. The scholars of hadith and others
agree that in matters such as virtue, exhortation to good, and waming
against evil, even the weak hadith are admissible. The above hadith is,
however, supported by other evidence including the hadith in which the
Prophet, peace be upon him, is reported to have asked his Companions,
'pray that he be supported.' Another is the hadith about the will made
by 'Amr ibn Al-'As. Both of these hadith are sound. The people of Syria
still act on this, when the occasion arises, until this very day."
Both the Maliki school, according to general report, and the Hanbali
school consider prompting the deceased reprehensible. Al-Athram said:
"I asked (Imam) Ahmad ibn Hanbal: 'This is what they do when the
deceased is buried. A man stands by the graveside and says: "O so
and so and son of so and so (his mother's name").' Ahmad said: 'I
have never seen anyone doing this except the Syrians when Abu Al-Mughirah
died."' He transmitted something about the subject from Abu Bakr
ibn Abi Maryam according to which their elders said that they used to
do it. Isma'il ibn 'Ayyash related the hadith reported by Abu Amamah.
Fiqh 4.66: The Sunnah Concerning Graveyards
The sunnah is to raise the grave at least one hand above the ground so
it is known that it is a grave. It is forbidden to raise it more than
that. This is based on a narrative reported by Muslim and others from
Harun that Thamamah ibn Shufayy told him: "Once we were with Fadalah
bin 'Ubayd in the Roman land of Brudis. One of our companions died and
upon burying him we were ordered by Fudalah ibn 'Ubayd to level his grave.
Then Fudalah said: 'I heard Allah's Messenger, peace be upon him, ordering
people to level the graves of the deceased." It is reported from
Abul al-Hayaj al-Asadi who said 'Ali bin Abu Talib told me: "Should
I not instruct you to do as the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him,
instructed me? Do not leave a statue standing without removing it. Do
not leave a grave raised without leveling it."
Tirmizhi said: "Some scholars act upon this opinion. They disapprove
of raising the grave more than necessary to indicate that it is a grave,
and so people will not step or sit on it." Muslim governors used
to destroy cemetery structures not permitted by the law, in accordance
with the authentic sunnah. Ash-Shafi'i said: "I prefer that the soil
used for a grave be no more than that dug for that grave. I like to see
a grave raised above the ground the length of a hand or so. I prefer not
to erect a structure over a grave or to whitewash it, for indeed this
resembles decoration and vanity, and death is not the time for either
of these things. I have never seen the graves of the Muhajirin or Ansar
plastered. I have seen the Muslim authorities destroying structures in
graveyards, and I have not seen any jurists object to this."
Ash-Shawkani said: "It is apparent that raising graves more than
what is legally permitted is forbidden. The followers of Ahmad, a group
of the followers of Ash-Shafi'i, and Malik are of this opinion. An opinion
that raised graves are not prohibited because this practice occurred during
the time of the first and later generations without disapproval, which
is the position of Imam Yahya and Mahdi in al-Ghayth, is not correct.
This argument is based only on their silence about the practice, and silence
is not proof when a matter rests on mere assumption, for prohibition of
raising graves is presumptive."
Included in the discussion of raising the grave are dome buildings, shrines
built on graves, and erecting mosques around graves.The Prophet, peace
be upon him, cursed those who did that. The practice of erecting buildings
around graves and beautifying them causes corruption, which Islam seeks
to eliminate.
Part of such a corruption is exaggerating the importance of graves, in
accordance with the superstitious belief of the ignorant, similar to the
belief of non-believers in their idols, that these monuments can bring
benefit or prevent harm. Thus they travel to these graves for fulfillment
of their needs or achievement of their goals. They ask those in the graves
what believers should ask only of their Lord. They ride horses to them,
touch them, and seek their aid. In general, they do exactly what the pre-Islamic
people used to do with their idols.
Despite this disgraceful, reprehensible evil and hideous disbelief, how
many people dare to take a stand for the cause of Allah, or evince any
uneasiness for the defense of the true din? Where are the scholars and
students, and the rulers, the ministers, and the kings, who are obliged
to teach the truth? Various reports reaching us leave little doubt that
many of these grave adorers, in fact most of them, when confronted and
asked under oath to reject such idolatry would readily take a solemn oath
falsely by Allah. But if you then ask them, "(Swear) by your spiritual
leader and your saint, so-and-so," they will ponder, apologize, refuse,
and confess the truth. This is one of the clearest proofs that their polytheism
is indeed worse than that of the Christians and others who say: "Allah,
the Exalted, is the second of two or the third of three."
O scholars of Islam! O kings of Islam! What calamity to Islam is worse
than disbelief? What tribulation for this religion is worse than worshipping
others than Allah? What misfortune for Muslims can equal this misfortune?
Is there any more serious abomination than this open polytheism?
You might be heard if you called the living, But there is no life in
him whom you call; Had there been a fire in which you blew, there would
have been light; but you blew in the sand.
The scholars have issued clear legal verdicts concerning the destruction
of mosques and domes built in cemeteries. Ibn Hajar said in his az-Zawajir:
(This is a collection of legal verdicts, pubhshed when king Al-Zahir decided
to destroy all the buildings in the graveyards. Coeval Islamic scholars
collectively supported him saying to do so was incumbent upon the ruler.)
"We should not hesitate to destroy mosques and domes built over graves.
These are worse than the mosque of adDirar, because these things are erected
in disobedience to the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him. The Prophet,
peace be upon him, has forbidden this and has ordered the destruction
of raised graves. Every lamp or lantern placed over a grave must be removed.
It is not correct to stop at a grave or make a vow at it.
Fiqh 4.68: Making Humps over Graves and Flattening Them
Jurists agree that it is permissible either to make a little hump over
the grave or to flatten it. At-Tabari said: "I dislike it for a grave
to be prepared in any way other than these two: it should be either leveled
with the ground or raised with a hump over it, but no higher than one
hand, as is the common practice among Muslims. Leveling the grave differs
from flattening it completely. Jurists differ concerning which of these
two methods is best. Al-Qadi 'Iyad has reported from the major scholars
that it is best to make a hump over the grave because Sufyan an-Nammar
told him that he had seen the grave of the Prophet, peace be upon him,
with a hump over it." (Bukhari) This is the opinion of Abu Hanifah,
Malik, Ahmad, al-Mazani, and many scholars of the Shafi'i school. Ash-Shafi'i's
opinion, however, is that because of the order of the Prophet, peace be
upon him, leveling is best.
Fiqh 4.68 a: Placing a Distinguishing Mark on a Grave
It is permissible to place a mark, such as a stone or a piece of wood,
over a grave so that it can be recognized. This is based on a hadith reported
by Ibn Majah from Anas that the Prophet, peace be upon him, "placed
a rock over 'Uthman ibn Maz'eun's grave so that it could be recognized."
In az-Zawa'id it is stated that its chain of narrators is sound. Abu Daw'ud
reported it in the hadith of al-Muttalib ibn Abi Wada'ah which has the
following words: "He carried a rock and placed it by the headside
of the grave and said, 'I want to mark my brother's grave and then bury
beside it whoever else of my family dies."' This hadith indicates
that it is preferable for relatives of the deceased to be buried in adjacent
spots because it makes it easier for those who visit their graves to pray
for them.
Fiqh 4.68 b: Taking Off Shoes in Cemeteries
Most scholars are of the opinion that it is permissible to wear shoes
in a cemetery. Jarir ibn Hazim said: "I saw al-Hasan and Ibn Sirin
walking with their shoes on in a cemetery." Anas reported: "The
Prophet, peace be upon him, said: 'When a servant of Allah is put into
a grave and his companions leave, he can hear the sound of their sandals'.''
(Reported by Bukhari, Muslim. Abu Daw'ud, and Nasa'i) The scholars deduce
from this hadith that it is permissible to walk in a cemetery with one's
shoes on since the only way the dead would hear the sound of their sandals
is when they were wearing them.
Ahmad disliked, however, wearing dyed shoes (Sibtiyah (Arabic), a type
of shoes dyed with pods of a species of sant tree) in graveyards. This
is based on a report by Abu Daw'ud, Nasa'i, and Ibn Majah from Bushair,
the freed slave of the Prophet, peace be upon him, who said: "Once
the Prophet, peace be upon him, noticed a man wearing shoes while walking
in the cemetery. He said to him: 'O you who are wearing the sihtiyyah
(shoes). Woe to you. Take off your sibtivyah shoes.' When the man recognized
the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, he took them off and threw
them away."
Al-Khattabi said: "The order of the Prophet, peace be upon him,
may indicate that he disliked this because of the people involved in them.
The sibtiyvah shoes were wom by privileged people given to luxury. The
Prophet, peace be upon him, liked those visiting the graveyards to be
humble and unpretentious. Ahmad holds that wearing shoes is disliked only
when done without any valid excuse. If there is a genuine reason for wearing
shoes, such as, thoms or impurities, then one may keep one's shoes on.
Fiqh 4.69: The Prohibition against Covering Graves
Covering graves or tombs is not permissible, because this involves unnecessary
expense for an invalid cause, and may mislead the common man. 'Aishah
reported: "The Prophet, peace be Up('ll him, left on a raid. I covered
the door with a piece of cloth. The Prophet, peace be upon him, noticed
the cloth when he retumed. He pulled at it until he tore it. Then he said:
'Allah did not order us to cover stones and clay'.'' (Reported by Bukhari
and Muslim)
Fiqh 4.69 a: Building Mosques or Placing Lights on Graves
There are many sound and clear hadith conceming the unlawfulness of building
mosques over graves or putting lights on them. Abu Hurairah reported:
"The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: 'May Allah destroy the Jews,
because they used the graves of their prophets as places of worship.''
(Bukhari and Muslim)
Ibn 'Abbas reported: "The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him,
cursed the women who visit graves and those who build mosques and place
lights on them.'' (Reported by Ahmad and other compilers of the Sunan
except Ibn Majah. Tirmizhi considers it a sound hadith) Abdullah Al-Bujali
said: "I heard Allah's Messenger, peace be upon him, five nights
before his death, saying: 'I declare myself innocent before Allah of having
an intimate friend from among you. Indeed, Allah, the Mighty and the Majestic,
has taken me as an intimate friend just as he took Ibrahim as His intimate
friend. Had I to take an intimate friend from among you, I would have
taken Abu Bakr as my intimate friend. Before you there was a group who
tumed the graves of their prophets and their righteous ones into mosques.
Do not tum graves into mosques. I forbid you to do that'.'' (Muslim)
Abu Hurairah narrated: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: 'May
Allah curse Jews and Christians for they turned the graves of their Prophets
into places of worship'.'' (Muslim Bukhari and Muslim)
'Aishah reported: "Umm Habibah and Umm Salamah mentioned to Allah's
Messenger, peace be upon him, a church in which they saw drawings while
in Abyssinia, whereupon he said: 'Those people used to build a place of
worship over the grave of a righteous man among them when he died and
make such drawings in it.These will be the worst of people in the sight
of Allah on the Day of Resurrection.'' (Bukhari and Muslim)
The author of Al-Mughni said: "It is not permissible to build mosques
around graves because of the statement of the Prophet, peace be upon him,
'May Allah curse the women who visit graves and those who build mosques
and place lights over them.''' (Reported by Abu Daw'ud and Nasa'i)
If it were permissible, the Prophet, peace be upon him, would not have
cursed those who did it. Moreover, this practice wastes money and encourages
adoration of graves similar in spirit to the adoration of idols. Because
of this report it is not pemmissible to build mosques over graves. Besides,
the Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "May Allah curse the Jews who
tumed the graves of their prophets into places of worship," in order
to wam others against pursuing a similar course. (Muslim and Bukhari)
'Aishah said: "The only reason the grave of Allah's Messenger, peace
be upon him, was not made prominent was to stop people from tuming it
into a mosque." Designating certain graves as places of prayers is
similar to adoring idols and seeking their pleasure. The worship of idols
started with the adoration of the dead, making images of them, touching
them, and offering prayers at their graves. (The commentator on this said:
"It points to what Bukhari narrated from Ibn Abbas conceming the
reason why the people of Noah worshipped idols. They were known as Wadd,
Sawa', Yaghuth, Ya'uq, and Nasr. These were pious people of whom they
made images in order to remember them after their death and imitate them.
Due to the lack of knowledge that became prevalent among the people, Satan
made it appear beautiful to worship their images and likenesses, and to
honor them, wipe over them, and approach them. Wiping them is passing
one's hand over them to invoke their blessing and intercession. The same
was done to the graves of nghteous people. This practice was initiated
by idolaters, and then passed on to Jews and Christians and then to Muslims.
Such objects are equivalent to idols.")
Fiqh 4.70: Slaughtering Animals on the Graves
The Prophet, peace be upon him, forbade the slaughtering of animals at
graves, which was practiced in the Days of Ignorance out of arrogance
and self conceit in order to flaunt one's wealth. Anas reported: "The
Prophet, peace be upon him, said: 'There is no slaughtering (of animals
on graves) in Islam.'' (Abu Daw'ud) Abdul Razzaq said: "They used
to slaughter a cow or a sheep by the grave."
Al-Khattabi said: "During the Days of Ignorance the people used
to slaughter camels by the graves of generous people. They used to say:
'We would like him to be rewarded for his deeds. He used to slaughter
them when he was alive and feed them to his guests. We slaughter these
camels at his grave to feed the lions and birds, so that he may continue
feeding others even after his death as he used to do while he was alive'."
A poet said: I slaughtered my she-camel at the grave of my king, with
a bright sharp sword, meticulously cleaned by polishers, on the grave
of someone, who, had I died before him, would have willingly slaughtered
his mounts by my grave.
They believed in resurrection after death. Some people believed that
if a camel was slaughtered by the grave of a person, he would be restored
to life mounted on it on the Day of Resurrection, whereas otherwise at
his resurrection, having no mount, he would have to walk on foot.
Fiqh 4.71: Prohibition of Sitting, Leaning, and Walking on Graves
It is not permissible to sit on a grave, or lean on it, or walk over
it. This is based on a hadith reported by 'Amr bin Hazm who said: "The
Prophet, peace be upon him, saw me leaning on a grave, so he said: 'Do
not harm the dweller in this grave or do not harm him.''' (Reported by
Ahmad, who considers its chain of narrators as sound) Abu Hurairah reported:
"The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: 'It is better for you to sit
on a glowing coal that burns through your clothes to your skin than to
sit on a grave.'' (Reported by Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Daw'ud, Nasa'i, and
Ibn Majah) In the opinion of Ibn Hazm this statement amounts to an outright
prohibition because of the warning contained in it. He said this is the
opinion of a group of the early Muslims of whom Abu Hurairah is one.
The majority of scholars hold that such an act is merely disapproved.
An-Nawawi said: "Ash-Shafi'i (See Al-Shafi'i's work Al-Umm) and the
companions mentioned in various narrations disapprove of sitting on a
grave, holding it to be makruh tahrimi, (Makruh is divided into makruh
tahrimi "that which is nearly unlawful without it being actually
so," and makruh tanzihi "that which approaches the lawful.")
a term well-known to jurists.The majority of scholars including An-Nakha'i,
Al-Laith, Ahmad, and Daw 'ud hold this view.They also disapprove of reclining
or leaning on a grave."
Ibn 'Umar, Abu Hanifah, and Malik are of the opinion that it is permissible
to sit on a grave. Malik said: "We think that prohibition of sitting
and leaning on graves means prohibition of using them to answer the call
of nature.'' (Al-Muwatta) He cited a weak hadith in this regard. Ahmad
considers the interpretation of Malik weak and said: "This is not
an argument." An-Nawawi said that this interpretation is weak or
false. Likewise, Ibn Hazm regards it invalid for a number of reasons.
This difference of opinion concerns sitting on graves. However, there
is agreement among the jurists, however, that sitting on the graves to
answer the call of nature is unlawful. The jurists also agree on the permissibility
of walking over graves if necessary, when for instance, there is no other
way of reaching the grave of one's dear one.
Fiqh 4.72: Prohibition of Whitewashing or Writing on a Grave
Jabir reported: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, forbade the whitewashing
of a grave, sitting on it, or erecting any structure on it." (Reported
by Ahmad, Muslim, Nasa'i, Abu Daw'ud, and Tirmizhi who said that it is
a sound hadith) Tirmizhi reported this hadith with this wording: "The
Prophet, peace be upon him, forbade the whitewashing of graves, writing
on them, building on them, or stepping on them." Nasa'i, reported
it in these words: "The Prophet, peace be upon, forbade building
over a grave, adding anything to it, white washing it, or writing on it."
The majority of scholars interpret this prohibition as an expression
of disapproval, while Ibn Hazm takes it to mean that the act is unlawful.
The wisdom behind it is that a grave is not made to last forever, but
is sure to disintegrate with the passage of time. whitewashing graves
is decorating them with the beauty of this world for which the dead have
no need. Others think that its wisdom lies in the fact that whitewashing
is done by burning gypsum (brimstone): This view is supported by a narration
of Zaid bin Arqam who said to a person who wanted to build something over
his son ' s grave and whitewash it: "You are wrong and have done
a useless thing. Nothing touched by fire should be brought near the grave."
There is nothing wrong, however, in daubing it with clay. Tirmizhi said:
"Some scholars, including Al-Hasan alBasri, hold it permissible to
coat the graves with clay." Ash-Shafi'i is also of the same view
and sees no harm in giving the graves a coating of clay.
Ja'far bin Muhammad reported from his father: "The grave of the
Prophet, peace be upon him, was raised one hand from the ground and was
coated with red clay and some gravel." This was narrated by Abu Bakr
An-Najjad, but AlHafiz did not comment on this in his ai-Talkhis.
The scholars also disapprove of building graves with bricks or wood or
burying the dead with a coffin unless the burial ground was wet or soft.
If it is wet or soft, then it is permissible to use bricks and the like
and to place the body in a coffin. It is reported from Mughirah that Ibrahim
said: "The scholars preferred bricks of clay and straw, but disliked
clay bricks; they preferred bamboo and disliked wood."
Concerning the hadith prohibiting writing on graves, it apparently includes
writing the name of the deceased or any other thing on the grave. AlHakim
commented on this hadith and said: "Though its chain of narrators
is sound, in practice, however, it was not followed." Many Muslims
from the East and the West do write on the graves. This is a practice
that was passed on from one generation to the next. Azh-Zhahabi said:
"This hadith is an innovated one, and no prohibition is genuinely
reported."
The Hanbali school holds that inscription on graves is prohibited, whether
it is a portion of the Qur'an or the name of the deceased." The Shafi'i
school agrees with this ruling, but they also hold: "If the grave
is of a scholar or a righteous man, it is preferable to write his name
on it to make it known."
The Maliki school holds that writing any portion of the Qur'an is not
permissible, but writing the name and date of death of the deceased is
disliked (makruh) .
The Hanafi school disapproves of writing anything on the grave and considers
it unlawful, except when it is feared that any trace of the grave might
disappear. Ibn Hazm said: "It is not disapproved if the name of the
deceased was engraved on a rock."
It is forbidden in a hadith "to add more soil than what was taken
out when digging the grave." Al-Baihaqi has dealt with this under
a separate chapter entitled, "No adding of soil to the grave in excess
of what is taken therefrom."
Ash-Shawkani said that: "Adding apparently here means adding more
soil than what was taken out while digging the grave." Some interpreted
the addition to a grave as making a grave over another one. Ash-Shafi'i
preferred, however, the first interpretation, saying that it was preferable
not to add more soil than what was taken out while digging the grave which
is preferred lest the grave be raised high. So long as the additional
soil does not raise the grave higher than the ground, there is nothing
wrong with it.
Fiqh 4.73: Burying More than One Body in One Grave
From the example of early generations, we learn that one body is to be
buried in a grave. It is disliked if more than one body is buried in a
grave, unless there is a large number of corpses, and there is a scarcity
of graves, and it is impossible to bury them separately. In such a case,
it is permissible to bury more than one body in a grave. This is based
on a hadith reported by Ahmad and Tirmizhi, who said, "The Ansar
came to the Prophet, peace be upon him, on the day of the Battle of Uhud,
saying: 'O Allah's Messenger! We are afflicted with physical injury and
we are tired, what do you command us to do?' The Prophet, peace be upon
him, said: 'Dig it, enlarge it, and deepen it, then place two or three
men in one grave.' They asked: 'Whom should we put in first?' He said:
'The one who knows the most Qur'an'." Tirmizhi stated that it is
a sound hadith. 'Abd-ur Razzaq reported from Wathilah ibn al-Asqa' with
a sound chain of narrators that, "a man and a woman were buried together
in the same grave. The man would be placed first, and then the woman behind
him."
Fiqh 4.74: Burial at Sea
The author of al-Mughni said: "If a person died while in a ship
on the sea, then, according to Ahmad, they should wait a day or two to
find a place to bury him, unless they are afraid that the corpse would
decay. If they cannot find a place (on land) to bury him, then the deceased
should be washed, shrouded, a funeral prayer offered for him, then tied
with a heavy weight, it be thrown into the water." This is the opinion
of 'Ata and Al-Hasan. Al-Hasan said, "He is to be put in a basket
and then thrown into the sea." Ash-Shafi'i said: "The body should
be placed on two boards and let into the sea so that the boards might
take it ashore, where some people might find it and bury it. But if one
throws it into the sea, one would not be committing any sin."
The latter, i.e. burial at sea, is preferable, because it serves the
purpose of covering the body which is comparable to burying him. Tying
it between two boards is apt to expose it and cause it to be disfigured
and mutilated. It might be thrown on the shore, mutilated and naked, or
it might fall into the hands of pagans. That is why we believe the second
course mentioned above is to be preferred.
Fiqh 4.74 a: Placing Branches of Palm on a Grave
It is not lawful to put a branch of a palm or flowers on a grave. The
contrary is suggested by the following hadith reported by Bukhari and
others from Ibn 'Abbas: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, passed by
two graves and said, 'Those two are being punished for a minor matter.
The first did not clean himself carefully after urinating. The second
one used to spread lies.' Then the Prophet, peace be upon him, asked for
a fresh branch of a palm tree, broke it into two parts, and then placed
a part on each of them, saying, 'I hope that this will reduce their punishment
for as long as the branch remains fresh.' Al-Khattabi is of the opinion,
however, that "This placing of a branch of a palm on the graves,
while saying, "I hope that this will reduce their punishment for
as long as it remains fresh," is a blessed effect of the Prophet,
peace be upon him, and of his supplication to Allah to lighten their punishment."According
to Al-Khattabi, "He hoped, as it were, that the two would be relieved
of their punishment so long as the palm branch remained fresh. This, however,
does not have anything to do with the freshness or dryness of the palm
branch or its role in lightening the punishment as such. Though the masses
in many of the Muslim countries place branches of palm over the graves
of their relatives, this practice has no basis or merit in the light of
Islamic teachings."
Al-Khattabi's opinion as reported above is correct. The Companions of
the Prophet, may Allah be pleased with them, were familiar with this and
practiced it. Bukhari reported that, "There is no evidence to show
that anyone of them ever put a branch of a palm or a bunch of flowers
on graves, except on the grave of Buraidah al-Asalmi, who had instructed
his heirs in his will that two branches of palm be placed on his grave.''
(Bukhari) The idea that such a practice was lawful, and yet was unknown
to all the Companions, except Buraidah, is not plausible. Al-Hafiz said
in Al-Fath: "Apparently Buraidah took the hadith in its general import
and did not regard it as specifically related to those two men."
Ibn Rashid said: "It is apparent from Bukhari's commentary that it
was specifically done by the Prophet, peace be upon him, for those two
men. He also quoted a statement of Tbn 'Umar, who, when he noticed a tent
was set up over 'Abd ur Rahman's grave, said: 'Take it away; the only
thing that can shade him is his deeds'." Ibn Umar's statement shows
that he realized that placing anything over a grave does not benefit the
deceased, except his own good deeds.
Fiqh 4.75: A Woman who Dies While Pregnant with a Living Fetus
If a pregnant woman dies and the trustworthy physicians are sure that
the fetus is alive, then it must be taken out of her womb by a caesarian
operation.
Fiqh 4.75 a: A non-Muslim Woman who Dies while Carrying a Child by a
Muslim is to be Buried in a Separate Grave
Al-Baihaqi reported from Wathilah bin al-Asqa' that he buried a Christian
woman bearing the child of a Muslim in a cemetery that belonged to neither
Muslims nor Christians. Ahmad supports this opinion because he says that
the woman being a disbeliever, cannot be buried in a cemetery of Muslims,
for they would suffer because of her punishment, nor can she be buried
in a Christian cemetery because her fetus, which is a Muslim, would suffer
by their punishment.
Fiqh 4.75 b: The Preference of being Buried in Cemeteries
Ibn Qudamah said: "A burial in a cemetery is better for a servant
of Allah than being buried in home, for this is less harmful to survivors
in his family, is more like the dwellings of the hereafter, and is more
suitable a place for making supplications for forgiveness and mercy for
the dead. The Companions, their Successors, and those after them buried
their dead in the deserts in cemeteries.
Some people may ask: "Why then were the Prophet, peace be upon him,
and his two Companions buried in his home?" In answer to this we
would refer to the statement of 'Aishah in which she said: "This
was done lest the grave of the Prophet be turned into a mosque.'' (Bukhari)
The Prophet, peace be upon him, buried his Companions in the cemetery
of "al-Baqi' in Madinah and surely his action is more preferable
than someone else's action. The Companions of the Prophet regarded his
burial arrangements as a special case for him because, as reported in
a tradition "the Prophets are buried at the place they die,"
and because burying him at his home distinguished his grave from those
of others, and protected it from being exposed to great numbers of people,
he was buried at home.
When asked about a man who had instructed in his will that he be buried
in his house, Ahmad said: "He should be buried with Muslims in their
cemetery."
Fiqh 4.76: The Prohibition Against Talking Ill of the Dead
It is not permissible to talk ill of the deceased Muslims or to mention
their evil deeds. This is based on Bukhari's report from 'Aishah that
the Prophet, peace be upon him, said: "Do not speak ill of the dead;
they have seen the result of (the deeds) that they forwarded before them."
Abu Daw'ud and Tirmizhi have transmitted, but with a weak chain of narrators,
from Ibn ' Umar a similar hadith that the Prophet, peace be upon him,
said, "Mention the good deeds of your dead and cover their evil deeds."
As for those Muslims who openly do evil or indulge in illicit innovation,
it is permissible to mention their evil deeds if some public good so requires
and and as a warning to others in order to discourage anyone who might
otherwise follow their bad example. If no such benefit is to be gained,
then it is not permissible to mention anything evil about the deceased.
Bukhari and Muslim reported that Anas said: "A funeral procession
passed by and the people praised the deceased. The Prophet, peace be upon
him, exclaimed, 'It is decided.' Then another funeral procession passed
by and the people said some bad things about the deceased. The Prophet,
peace be upon him, remarked, 'It is decided.' 'Umar asked: 'What is decided?'
The Prophet, peace be upon him, answered, 'The one whom you praised is
entitled to Paradise, and the one whom you described as bad is entitled
to the Hell Fire. You are Allah's witnesses on earth'."
Cursing the dead disbelievers is permissible, because Allah, the Exalted,
says: "Curses by the tongue of David and of Jesus, the son of Mary,
were pronounced on those among the Children of Israel who rejected faith.''
Qur'an 5.78 Similarly we read in the Qur'an: "Perish the hands of
the Father of Flame!'' Qur'an 111.1 Pharaoh and others like him have also
been cursed in the Qur'an, besides the great curse of Allah about which
we read: "Behold! the curse of Allah is on those who do wrong. Qur'an
11.18
Fiqh 4.76 a: Reciting the Qur'an by the Graveside
The jurists differ concerning the legality of reciting the Qur'an by
the graveside. Ash-Shafi'i and Muhammad bin Al-Hasan consider it desirable,
because by it, the deceased might be blessed. Al-Qadi 'Iyad and scholars
of the Maliki school agree with them on this point. Ahmad holds that there
is nothing wrong in reciting the Qur'an at a grave, whereas Malik and
Abu Hanifah view this as not desirable because the sunnah does not mention
this practice.
Fiqh 4.77: Building New Graves over Old Graves
Muslim scholars agree that a place where a Muslim is buried should not
be disturbed if flesh, bones, or other parts of the body remain there.
If any of his other remains are found it is not permissible to disturb
them. But if the entire corpse has disintegrated into dust, then a new
grave may be dug there. Also, in such a case it is permissible to use
the land for planting, cultivation, building, and for other beneficial
purposes. If the remains of a body, such as bones, are found during the
digging, then the digging should be stopped. And if the remains are found
after the digging is finished, then it is quite permissible to place these
to one side in the grave and bury another body beside them.
If the deceased person was buried before a funeral prayer was offered
for him or her and the person had not yet been covered with soil, then
the remains should be removed and the funeral prayer should be offered
before reburial. But if the deceased was buried completely without a funeral
prayer, it is unlawful, according to the Hanafi and the Shafi'i schools,
to dig up the grave. This is also the opinion of Ahmad, according to one
narration from him. In such a case, a funeral prayer should be offered
for the deceased without disturbing the grave. Yet another report from
Ahmad says that in such a case the grave should be dug up, the body exhumed,
and a funeral prayer offered for the deceased person.
The leaders of the three schools hold it permissible to dig up a grave
for a valid reason, e.g., to remove some money left in the grave, to turn
the face of a body toward the Kaibah if buried otherwise, to wash a body
that was buried without a proper purification, and to improve the shroud.
This is not done, however, in cases when it is feared that by doing so
the corpse will disintegrate.
The Hanafi school disagrees and considers it not permissible to dig up
a grave for any of the above reasons. They consider such digging of a
grave as a sort of dismembering of the body, which is not permissible
in any case. Ibn Qudamah countered this position by explaining: "It
would be considered dismemberment (muthlah) only in the case of those
whose bodies have rotten away. In such a case, a grave should not be dug
up. If the deceased was buried without a shroud, then there are two alternatives.
First, he should be left alone since the object of having a shroud is
to cover the body. and that is achieved by covering it with soil. Second,
the grave should be dug up and the body shrouded, because shrouding is
obligatory and is as important as washing the body."
Ahmad said: "If the grave digger forgot and left his tools inside
the grave, he may dig them up." The same applies if someone dropped
an axe, some money, or something of value. He was asked: "What if
the deceased's family offered the owner of the objects compensation for
his lost valuables?"He said: "If they give him his rightful
due, then he may not dig."
Bukhari has reported a relevant hadith concerning this from Jabir, who
said: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, came to Abdallah ibn Ubayy
after he was lowered in his grave. He commanded his companions to take
him out. Then he put him on his knees, blew his saliva over him, then
put a shirt on him." He has also reported: "A man was buried
with my father. I did not feel good until I removed him and buried him
in a separate grave.'' (The body was taken out six months after his father's
death)
Bukhari has given these two hadith in a separate chapter, entitled: "Can
a deceased be taken out of the grave for any reason?" Abu Daw'ud
reported from Abdallah ibn ' Amr who said, "While we were going to
al-Taif and passing by a grave, I heard the Prophet, peace be upon him,
saying: 'This is Abu Raghal's grave. ' He used to treat the Prophet insolently
in the sacred precincts (of the Sacred Mosque). The Prophet, peace be
upon him, added, 'When he left, a retribution overtook Abu Raghal, as
it did his people at this place, so he was buried here. And the proof
of this is that he was buried with a piece of gold. So if you dig up his
grave, you will get it.' The People rushed to the grave, dug it up, found,
and removed the gold piece."
Al-Khattabi said: "This shows that it is permissible to dig up the
graves of polytheists if there is some good or benefit for Muslims in
doing so. Indeed, in such a situation their case is not similar to that
of deceased Muslims."
Fiqh 4.78: Transfering the Body from One Place to Another
The Ash-Shafi'i school considers it unlawful to transfer the body of
a deceased from one country or town to another unless it is to Makkah,
Madinah or Jerusalem. It is permissible to remove the body to one of these
cities because of their special significance and position.If someone leaves
instructions in his or her will that he or she be buried in a place other
than these three cities, the will may not be executed, because it could
delay the burial and cause the body to deteriorate. Likewise transferring
the body from one grave to another is prohibited unless there is a valid
reason for doing so, for example, if the deceased was buried without a
proper wash, or was buried without tuming the deceased's face toward the
qiblah, or the grave was damaged by flood or dampness.
It is stated in Al-Minhaj that digging up a grave after burial either
for removing the body or for any other reason is prohibited unless there
is genuine reason for it. such as when a deceased person is buried without
a wash or is buried in a usurped cloth or land or something of value is
left in the grave or the deceased was buried without facing the qiblah.
The Maliki school holds it permissible to remove the body from one place
to another, before or after the burial, for a genuine reason, for example,
when it is feared that the body of a deceased may be drowned in the sea
or eaten up by wild animals, or when relatives want to bury the deceased
nearby so that they may visit it more easily, or in order to seek the
blessings of the place to which the body is removed. In all such cases,
transferring of the body from one place to another is permissible provided
its sanctity is not affected, e.g., it does not bloat, does not decompose
or its bones do not break.
The Hanafi school considers the removal of a body from one place to another
undesirable, and holds it preferable to bury a person at the place of
death. The body may be taken for a mile or two for burial, for that is
the usual distance to a cemetery. After the burial removing the body without
a genuine reason is not permissible as mentioned above. If a woman's son
dies and he is buried in her absence in another town, and she was impatient
and wanted to remove his body to her own town, her request may not be
heeded.
The Hanbali school considers it desirable to bury a martyr at the place
where he or she is killed. Ahmad said, "As to those who are slain,
a hadith reported by Jabir from the Prophet, peace be upon him, says:
'Bury the martyrs wherever they are killed'." Ibn Majah reported:
"The Prophet, peace be upon him, ordered that the martyrs of the
Battle of Uhud be returned and buried at the places where they had fallen."
As for the others, they are not to be removed from one town to another
without a valid cause. This is the opinion of AlAwza'i and Ibn al-Munzhir.
Abdallah ibn Malikah said: "Abd-ur Rahman ibn Abu Bakr died in Abyssinia
and his body was carried to Makkah where he was buried. When 'Aishah visited
his grave she said: 'By Allah! Had I been there when you died, I would
not have allowed you to be buried anywhere except at the place where you
had died. And had I seen you there, I would not have visited you'."
Burying the deceased at the place of death is easier and more secure against
deterioration of the physical remains. It is permissible, however, to
remove the body from one place to another in case there is a valid reason.
Ahmad said: "I do not know of any harm in transferring the deceased
from one town to another." When Az-Zuhri was asked about that, he
said, "The bodies of Sa'd ibn Abi Waqqas and Sa'id ibn Zaid were
removed from al-'Aqiq to Madinah."
Fiqh 4.80: Condolences
Offering one's condolences to someone means sharing in his grief and
encouraging him to be patient. It means enjoining patience to comfort
the distressed person and to lighten his or her grief and misfortune.
Fiqh 4.80 a: Their Legality,Condolences
Condolences are desirable, even if the deceased was a non-Muslim. Ibn
Majah and Al-Baihaqi reported from 'Amr ibn Hazm that the Prophet, peace
be upon him, said: "Every believer who consoles his brother in distress,
will be dressed by Allah in an apparel of honor on the Day of Resurrection."
It is recommended, however, that the condolences be offered only once.
The condolences should be offered to the entire family of the deceased,
that is, to all the relatives, old and young, men and women. (The scholars
exclude from this list beautiful young women. Only their mahram relatives
may offer condolences to them) One may offer condolences either before
or after the burial up to three days after death. If the person either
offering or receiving condolences was not present at the time of death,
condolences may be offered even at a later period.
Fiqh 4.80 b: The Wording of Condolence
Condolences may be offered in any words so long as they lighten the distress,
induce patience, and bring solace to the bereaved. It is preferable, however,
to use the wording as transmitted in hadith.
Usamah ibn Zaid reported, "A daughter of the Prophet, peace be upon
him, sent him a message to come to her house, because a son of hers had
died. In response he sent her a message with his regards saying: 'Verily,
to Allah belongs what He has taken, and to Him belongs what He has given.
For everything He has set a term. So be patient and be content'.'' (Bukhari.
In Comment An-Nawawi said: "This is a very comprehensive hadith.
It contains a number of essential principles of Islam. It encourages one
to be patient in the face of catastrophe and hard times. The meaning of
'what Allah takes' is that everything belongs to Allah. Therefore what
he takes also belongs to Him and not to others. He takes what He owns.
Whatever we have is on trust. Thus, we should be patient and content with
whatever befalls us.")
At-Tabarani, Al-Hakim, and Ibn Mardawayh reported - with a chain that
has an unreliable narrator - from Mu'azh ibn Jabal that when a son of
his slied, Mu'azh received a letter from the Prophet, peace be upon him,
offering him condolences. The Prophet wrote to him: "In the name
of Allah, the most Beneficent, the Most Merciful. From Muhammad, the Messenger
of Allah, to Mu'azh bin Jabal. Peace be upon you. I praise Allah, there
is no god but He. May Allah increase your reward, grant you patience,
and give us and you the power to offer our thanks, for verily, our lives,
our wealth, and our families are gifts of Allah entrusted to us only for
awhile. May Allah grant you joy and bless you with a large reward, mercy,
and guidance. If you are content with Him, you should be patient. Do not
let your grief destroy your reward, so that you may regret it later on.
Remember grieving over the deceased will not restore him to life, nor
remove grief. Whatever is destined to happen, it is as if it has already
occurred. Peace be on you'.'' (This hadith is weak. Mu'azh's son reportedly
died two years after the death of the Prophet, peace be upon him)
Ash-Shafi'i has reported the following in his Musnad from Ja'far ibn
Muhammad, who reported from his father and from his grandfather, both
of whom said: "When the Prophet, peace be upon him, died and condolences
were offered, they heard someone saying. 'In Allah is the best consolation
against every catastrophe, a substitute for every loss, and a replacement
for anything that is missed. Trust Allah, seek His aid, and be hopeful
of His mercy. The one really afflicted is the one who is deprived of the
reward for his misfortune." The chain of narrators of this hadith
is weak. Muslim scholars say that if a Muslim offers condolences to another
Muslim he should say: "May Allah increase your reward, give you the
best consolation, and forgive your deceased beloved." And if one
gives condolences to a Muslim for a disbelieving relative, one should
say: "May Allah increase your reward, and grant you the best of consolation."
If one gives condolences to a disbeliever for a Muslim relative, one
should say: "May Allah give you the best of condolences and grant
forgiveness to your deceased beloved."
If both the deceased and the one to whom condolences are given are disbelievers,
then one should say: "May Allah grant you a substitute." As
for the response to condolences, the receiver should respond, "Amin"
and "May Allah reward you."
According to Ahmad, one may or may not shake hands with the bereaved
when offering condolences. If one sees a person who has torn his or her
clothes because of a misfortune, one should comfort the person, and should
not refuse to do what is good because of his or her vain act, but it is
good if one bids such a person to refrain from doing so.
Fiqh 4.82: Sitting for Condolences
The sunnah concerning this is that one should offer condolences to the
bereaved family and leave. Neither the consoler nor the consoled should
sit down. This is the lesson we learn from the example of our righteous
predecessors. Ash-Shafi'i in his Al-Umm said, "I dislike gathering
in groups together to give condolences even if those gathered do not cry.
Such a gathering revives sorrow and adds to the grief and burden of the
bereaved family. An-Nawawi said, "Ash-Shafi'i and his companions
disliked sitting for condolences, whereby members of the family stay in
their homes to receive anyone coming to give their condolences. Instead,
they should go about their usual tasks and needs. This applies both to
men and women. Al-Muhamili states this explicitly and transmits it in
reference to a text from Ash-Shafi'i. This is makruh tanzihi (Makruh tanzihl
signifies something which is undesirable yet is closer to the lawful)
unless it is coupled with some other innovation. If it is accompanied
with another forbidden innovation (bid'ah), as is generally the case,
then it is regarded as one of the strongly forbidden acts. All such acts
are an innovation, and as a sound hadith says, "All novel acts are
an innovation and every innovation is error."
Ahmad and many other Hanafi scholars also hold this opinion. Early Hanafi
scholars, however, held the view that there is nothing wrong in holding
a gathering at places other than mosques for three days of condolence,
so long as one does nothing prohibited. The practices of some people nowadays,
such as gathering for condolences, setting up tents, spreading carpets,
and incurring a lot of expenses out of arrogance and show off are all
despicable innovations that are forbidden and must be avoided, especially
when most of these acts are contradictory to the teachings of the Qur'an
and sunnah and are vestiges of pre-Islamic customs of jahiliyyah. Some
of these innovations are reciting the Qur'an in a melodic fashion and
disregarding the rules of proper recitation, or not keeping silent when
listening to the Qur' an or indulging in smoking or such other activities.
And this is not all. Some of these slaves of their desires indulge in
extreme innovation. They are not satisfied with the days originally prescribed
by Islam, but designate Wednesday as the day to renew these abominations
and to indulge in these innovations. They celebrate the anniversary of
death on the first day and observe remembrance on the second day, and
do other such other things without any justification by either text or
reason.
Fiqh 4.83: Visiting Graves
Visiting graves is desirable for men. 'Abdallah ibn Buraidah reported
from his father that the Prophet, peace be upon him, said: "I had
forbidden you to visit graves, but now you may visit them. It will remind
you of the Hereafter." (Muslim, Ahmad, and the Sunan works) They
were prohibited from visitlng the graves because of their proximity to
the jahiliyyah (Days of Ignorance) when they used incorrect and obscene
language. After they had fully entered the fold of Islam, became well
pleased with it, and had fully accepted its laws, the Prophet, peace be
upon him, permitted them to visit graves.
Abu Hurairah reported: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, visited
his mother' s grave and cried, and everyone there cried with him. Then
the Prophet, peace be upon him, said: 'I sought my Lord's permission to
seek forgiveness for her, but He did not permit me. I then sought permission
to visit her grave and He permitted me to do this. You should visit graves,
because they will remind you of the reality of death.'' (Muslim, Ahmad,
and the Sunan, except Tirmizhi)
Since the purpose of visiting graves is admonition and remembrance of
death, it is permissible to visit the graves of disbelievers. Weeping
when passing by the graves of the wrongdoers who were seized and punished
by Allah for their evil deeds, and to express one's humility and one's
need for forgiveness of Allah is desirable.This is obvious from a hadith,
reported by Bukhari on the authority of Ibn 'Umar, that the Prophet, peace
be upon him, said to his Companions, when they passed through Al-Hijr,
the dwellings of the people of Thamud, "Do not go without weeping
to the places of burial of those who are undergoing torment. But if you
cannot weep, then do not enter these places lest what befell them should
befall you."
Fiqh 4.83 a: Etiquette of Visiting Graves
Whoever pays a visit to a grave should face the deceased, greet him,
and supplicate for him. On this subject we find the following: Buraidah
reported: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, taught us that when we
visited graves we should say, 'Peace be upon you, O believing men and
women, O dwellers of this place. Certainly, Allah willing, we will join
you. You have preceded us and we are to follow you.We supplicate to Allah
to grant us and you security'.'' (Reported by Muslim, Ahmad, and others)
Ibn 'Abbas reported: "Once the Prophet, peace be upon him, passed
by graves in Madinah. He tumed his face toward them saying: 'Peace be
upon you, O dwellers of these graves. May Allah forgive us and you. You
have preceded us, and we are following your trail'." (Tirmizhi)
'Aishah said: "Every time it was my turn to be with the Prophet,
peace be upon him, toward the end of the night, he would go out to the
cemetery of al-Baqi' and would say,
'Peace be upon you, O abode of believers. What you were promised will
come to pass tomorrow at a fixed time. We shall, Allah willing, soon join
you. O Allah! Grant forgiveness to the people who are buried in al-Baqi'
al-Gharqad',' (Muslim)
'Aishah also reported: "I asked: 'What should I say when I pass
by a graveyard, O Messenger of Allah?' He replied, 'Say, "Peace be
upon the believing men and women dwelling here. May Allah grant mercy
to those who have preceded us and those who are to follow them. Certainly,
Allah willing, we will join you"'."
What some people do, like wiping hands over the graves and tombs, kissing
them, and circumambulating around them are abominable innovations. Such
things should not be done, for they are unlawful. These things are permissible,
however, if performed in relation with the House of Allah, the Ka'abah,
for Allah has so honored it. The grave of the Prophet, peace be upon him,
cannot be considered a similar case, nor the tomb of a saint. All good
comes from azherence to his example whereas all evil flows from innovating
new things in religion.
Ibn al-Qayyim said: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, visited the
graves to supplicate for their inhabitants, and to seek mercy and forgiveness
of Allah for them. Contrary to this, the pagans supplicated to the dead,
swearing by them, asking them for their needs, and seeking their support
and help. Such pagan practices are in conflict with the guidance of the
Prophet, peace be upon him, and his teachings about the Oneness of Allah
and about the manner of supplicating for Allah's mercy for the dead. The
people who do such things are guilty of polytheism; they are indulging
in sin, and bringing evil to the deceased.They may be divided into three
categories: those who supplicate for the deceased, those who supplicate
through the deceased, and the third who supplicate to the deceased. They
think that making supplications by a grave is better than in a mosque.
For anyone who looks to the guidance of the Messenger of Allah, peace
be upon him, and his Companions, the distinction between the two cited
positions is fairly obvious."
Fiqh 4.85: Can Women Visit Graves
Imam Malik and some Hanafi scholars, and, according to one report from
Ahmad, most of the scholars hold it permissible for women to visit graves.
This is based on the following hadith from 'Aishah, "What should
I say to them, O Messenger of Allah when visiting graves?" As mentioned
above Abdallah ibn Abi Mulaikah is also reported to have said, "Once
'Aishah returned after visiting the graveyard. I asked, 'O Mother of the
Believers, where have you been?' She said: 'I went out to visit the grave
of my brother Abd ar-Rahman.' I asked her: 'Didn't the Messenger of Allah,
peace be upon him, prohibit visiting graves?' She said, 'Yes, he did forbid
visiting graves during the early days, but later on he ordered us to visit
them'." This is reported by Al-Hakim and Al-Baihaqi, who also remarked
that this hadith was narrated only by Bistam bin Muslim al-Basri. Azh-Zhahabi
said that it is a sound hadith.
Anas reported: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, saw a woman crying
by the grave of her son, and said to her, 'Fear Allah, and be patient.'
She replied, 'What do you care about my tragedy?' When he went away, someone
told her, 'Indeed, that was the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him.
' The woman felt extremely sorry and she immediately went to the Prophet's
house, where she did not find any guards. She called out: 'O Messenger
of Allah! I did not recognize you.' The Prophet, peace be upon him, said,
'Verily patience is needed at the time of the first affiction'.'' (Bukhari
and Muslim) This supports the argument in favor of the permissibility
of women visiting graves, for the Prophet, peace be upon him, saw her
at the grave and did not show his disapproval of it.
The purpose of visiting graves is to remember the Hereafter, which is
something that both men and women need. Men are by no means more in need
of this reminder than women. Some scholars disliked it for women to visit
graves as they are less patient and too emotional. The Prophet, peace
be upon him, said, "May Allah curse the women who are frequent visitors
of the graves." (Reported by Ahmad, Ibn Majah, and Tirmizhi, who
said that it is a sound hadith)
Al-Qurtubi said: "The curse mentioned in this hadith applies only
to those women who visit graves frequently. The reason for this curse
lies perhaps in the fact that it involves infringement of the rights of
the husband, and leads to adornment and exhibition of their beauty to
strangers, and shouting, yelling, and other similar things." It may
be said that, "If no such harm is feared from women visiting graves,
then there is no valid reason for preventing them from visiting graves,
for indeed remembrance of death is something that both men and women equally
need." Commenting on Al-Qurtubi's view, Ash-Shawkani said, "This
statement may form the basis for reconciling apparently contradictory
hadith."
Fiqh 4.86: The Deeds that Benefit the Departed Souls and Proffering
Reward for Good Deeds to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him)
There is consensus that a deceased person benefits from all good deeds
for which he or she in his or her life might have been a cause. Abu Hurairah
reported, "The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, 'When a person dies
all his good deeds cease except for three: a continuous act of charity,
beneficial knowledge, and a righteous son who prays for him'.'' (Muslim,
and the Sunan) Also Abu Hurairah reported, "The Prophet, peace be
upon him, said, 'The righteous works that continue to benefit a believer
after his death include the knowledge that he taught and spread among
others, a righteous son whom he leaves behind, or a copy of the Qur'an
that he bequeaths to his inheritors, or a mosque that he builds, or a
rest house that he builds for the wayfarers, or a canal of water that
he digs for the benefit of others, or a charity that he gives out of his
property during his life while he is sound of health. He will continue
to receive reward for all these even after his death.' (Ibn Majah)
Jarir ibn Abdallah reported: "The Prophet, peace be upon him, said:
'Whoever introduces a good practice in Islam will get its reward and the
rewards for all those who follow these practices after him, without any
loss to their reward. And whoever introduces a bad practice in Islam will
acquire its sin and the sins of all those who practice it, without any
decrease in their sins."
An account of the righteous deeds performed by others that continue to
be beneficial to the deceased is given in detail below:
2 Charity. An-Nawawi has recorded that Muslim scholars agree that
charity benefits the deceased person and its reward reaches the deceased
whether it is given by his or own son or by someone else. This is based
on a report from Ahmad, Muslim, and others from Abu Hurairah that, "A
man said to the Prophet, peace be upon him, ' My father died leaving wealth
but no will. Would he be pardoned if we gave charity on his behalf?' He
said: 'Yes."' It is also reported from Al-Hasan from Sa'd ibn 'Ubadah
that "his mother died and he said, 'O Messenger of Allah, my mother
has died. Should I give charity on her behalf?' He said: 'Yes.' I said:
'What is the best charity?' He said, 'Offering people a drink of water'."
Al-Hasan said: "This is the drinking place of the family of Sa'd
in Madinah." This is reported by Ahmad, Nasa'i, and others. Giving
charity in the graveyard is not permissible and giving it during the funeral
is disliked.
3 Fasting. This is based on a report by Bukhari and Muslim from
Ibn 'Abbas who said, "A man came to the Prophet, peace be upon him,
and said, 'My mother has died without making up for a missed month of
fasting. Can I fast on her behalf? ' The Prophet, peace be upon him, said,
' Would you pay her debt if she owed someone?' The man said, 'Yes.' The
Prophet, peace be upon him, said, 'Allah is more deserving of payment
in settlement of His debt'."
4 Performing the Pilgrimage (Hajj). This is based on a report
by Bukhari from Ibn 'Abbas that "a woman of the Juhainah tribe came
to the Prophet, peace be upon him, and said, 'My mother had vowed to perform
pilgrimage, but she died before she could fulfill her vow. Should I do
it on her behalf?' The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, 'Yes. Perform
Hajj on her behalf. Would you not pay the debt of your mother if she had
owed someone? Fulfill it. Allah is more deserving of receiving payment
for what is due to Him'."
5 Prayer (salah). This is based on a report by Ad-Darqutni who
said that "a man asked, 'O Allah's Messenger! I had parents whom
I served while they lived. How can I be good to them after their death?
' The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, 'Verily, among the good deeds
that you can do after their death is to offer prayer (salah) for them
when you pray for yourself and to fast for them when you fast for yourself'."
6 Recitation of the Qur'an. This is beneficial to the deceased
according to the opinion of the majority of the scholars among the ahl
al-sunnah.
An-Nawawi said, "The most well-known position of the Shafi'i school
is that this does not benefit the deceased." Ahmad ibn Hanbal and
a group of Shafi' i scholars hold that it does benefit the deceased .
The reciter has an option. He may supplicate for the deceased to be rewarded
for the recitation, saying: "O Allah! Grant the reward of what I
recited to so-and-so."
Ibn Qudamah in al-Mughni stated, "Ahmad ibn Hanbal said, 'The deceased
will receive the reward for every good done on his behalf. This is proved
by textual evidence found on this subject. The fact that Muslims in every
city gather to recite the Qur'an for the benefit of the deceased and that
they have been doing so without any disagreement or disapproval show that
there is consensus on this subject'."
Those who hold that the deceased benefits by the recitation of others
make it conditional upon the reciter not to accept any payment for his
recitation. If the reciter is paid for reciting, it is unlawful for both
the giver and the receiver, and he shall have no reward for his reciting.
Abd Ar Rahman ibn Shibl reported that the Prophet, peace be upon him,
said, "Recite the Qur'an, and do good deeds .... Do not neglect it,
nor be extreme in it. Do not make it a means of living nor a source of
your wealth.'' (Reported by Ahmad, At-Tabarani, and Al-Baihaqi)
Ibn al-Qayyim said, "Worship is of two types: financial and physical.
The Prophet, peace be upon him, has informed us that because charity (sadaqah)
benefits the deceased, all other acts of charity will also benefit the
deceased, and that because fasting on his behalf benefits the deceased,
all other physical acts of worship will likewise benefit the deceased.
Similarly the Prophet, peace be upon him, informed us that the reward
of making Hajj, which involves both physical and financial sacrifice,
does indeed benefit the deceased. Thus these three types of beneficial
acts of worship are supported by both the revealed texts and reason."
Fiqh 4.88: Intention as a Prerequisite
The performer must have the intention of performing an act on behalf
of the deceased. Ibn 'Aqil said, "If one performed any act of obedience,
for example, a prayer, fasting, or recitation of the Qur'an and made its
reward a gift to a deceased Muslim, the deceased will receive the reward
for it, provided that he has a prior intention of making it for the benefit
of the deceased, and the act and the intention go together." Ibn
al-Qayyim supports this opinion.
Fiqh 4.88 a: The Best Present for the Deceased
Ibn al-Qayyim said, "The best present for the deceased is an act
that is most beneficial to people, for example, freeing a slave.Thus a
sadaqah giving in charity is better than fasting on behalf of the deceased.
The best charity is that which fulfills someone's need and is continuous.
The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "The best charity is to give
people a drink of water." This applies to a place where water is
scarce. Otherwise, giving someone a drink of water from a river or a canal
would not be better than feeding the hungry who need food. Likewise, supplication
and asking forgiveness for the deceased is beneficial to the deceased,
especially when the supplicant is sincere, earnest, and humble in his
supplication. Such a supplication is better than charity, just as regular
prayer (salah) is better than the funeral prayer and than supplicating
for the deceased by his grave.
In general, the best gift to send the deceased is freeing a slave, giving
in charity, asking forgiveness for him or her, and making the Hajj (pilgrimage)
on his or her behalf.
Fiqh 4.89: Presenting a Reward to Allah's Messenger (pbuh)
Ibn al-Qayyim said, "Some of the latter jurists hold it desirable
while others do not agree because they regard it as an innovation (bid'ah).
The Companions never did it. The Prophet, peace be upon him, shall receive
a reward for every good done by anyone from among his community (Ummah)
without in the least diminishing the reward of the doer.This is because
he is the one who invited his community to every good, and led them to
it, and because the one who calls others to truth always has a reward
similar to that of those who follow it without in any way diminishing
their reward. Whatever guidance or knowledge his community gained, they
gained it only through him, so he shall have a reward equal to that of
his followers whether they formally dedicate it to him or not.
Fiqh 4.89 a: Children of Muslims and Non-Muslims
The children of Muslims who die prior to the age of puberty go to Paradise.
'Adi ibn Thabit reported that he heard al-Bara' saying, "When Ibrahim,
son of the Prophet died, the Prophet, peace be upon him, said, 'Verily,
he will have suckling in Paradise'.'' (Bukhari) Al-Hafiz said in Al-Fath,
"Bukhari indicates his view on this subject when he makes the statement
that 'they are in Paradise'." Anas ibn Malik reported that the Prophet,
peace be upon him, said, "If any Muslim has three children and they
die prior to reaching the age of puberty, Allah will cause him to enter
Paradise on account of His mercy to them."
It is clear from this hadith that those children who become a reason
for others to enter Paradise, would themselves be in a far better position
to enter it, because they are the real cause of the mercy of Allah.
As for children of non-Muslims, they are similar to the children of Muslims
with respect to their entry into Paradise. An-Nawawi said, "This
is the sound view held by the eminent scholars, and it is supported by
Allah's words, 'We will not punish anyone until We have sent a Messenger.'
(Qur'an 17.15) Now if an adult is not punished for the reason that the
truth did not reach him, it is far more reasonable to assume that a child
will not be punished." A report by Ahmad from Khansa, daughter of
Mu'awiyah ibn Sarim, states that he related her aunt's following account:
"I asked, 'O Messenger of Allah! Who will be in Paradise?' The Prophet,
peace be upon him, said, 'Prophets will be in Paradise, martyrs will be
in Paradise, and babies will be in Paradise'." Al-Hafiz said that
this hadith has a sound chain of narrators.
Fiqh 4.89 b: The Questioning in the Grave
Allahl al-Sunnah wa Al-Jama'ah agree that each person will be questioned
after his death, whether he is buried or not. Even if a person were eaten
by carnivorous animals or bumt to ashes and thrown into the air or drowned
in the sea, he or she would be questioned about his or her deeds, and
rewarded with good or evil depending on his or her deeds in life. Both
the body and the soul together experience punishment or reward.
Ibn al-Qayyim said, "The early Muslim community and its prominent
scholars held that after death, a person is either in bliss or torment
both physically and spiritually. After its separation from the body, the
soul endures a state of happiness or punishment. At times, when the soul
rejoins the body, both of them receive torture or joy. On the Day of Resurrection,
the souls will be returned to the bodies and they will rise from their
graves and stand before the Lord of the worlds. The Muslims, Christians,
and Jews, all believe in the resurrection of the body.
Al-Maruzi related that Imam Ahmad said, "The punishment in the grave
is a reality, and only he who is misguided or wants to misguide others
denies it."
Hanbal said, "I asked Abu Abdallah about the punishment in the grave.
He said, 'These are the sound hadith and we believe in them and affirm
them. We affirm everything that comes from the Prophet, peace be upon
him, with a sound chain of narrators. If we were to confirm a report as
being from the Prophet, peace be upon him, and then reject it or oppose
it, we would be denying the Word of Allah, "Whatever the Messenger
gives you, take it".' I asked him, 'Is the punishment of the grave
a reality?' He said, 'Yes, it is a reality. The people are punished in
their graves. ' I heard Abu Abdallah saying, 'We believe in the punishment
of the grave, in Munkar and Nakir (the two questioning angels), and that
the deceased will be questioned in their graves.' The Qur'an states that
'Allah will establish in strength those who believe in the Word, that
stands firm in this world and in the Hereafter,' Qur'an 14.27 that is,
in the grave."
Ahmad ibn al-Qasim said, I asked, 'O Abu Abdallah! Do you believe in
Munkar andNakir and what is related conceming the punishment of the grave?
' He said, 'Glory to Allah.Yes, we do confirm that and we declare so.'I
said, 'This expression that you use, is it Munkar and Nakir? Or do you
call them, "The two angels?"' He answered: 'Munkar and Nakir.'I
said, 'They say, "There is no mention of Munkar and Nakir in the
hadith".' He replied, 'Of course there is. There is Munkar and Nakir'."
Al-Hafiz said in Al-Fath, "Ahmad ibn Hazm and Ibn Hubairah are of
the opinion that the questioning is addressed to the soul only, without
its returning to the body. The majority of Muslim scholars, however, disagree
with them. They say, 'The soul is returned to the body or some of it,
as is confirmed by the hadith. Had the punishment been directed at the
soul only, there would not be concern for the body. The scattered parts
of a body should pose no problem, for Allah is able to give life to any
part of a body, and then address the questioning to that particular part.
Likewise, He is able to gather all its parts easily'."
Those who hold that the questioning will be addressed only to the soul
say that if one were to examine the body in the grave at the time of the
questioning, one will notice no trace of its sitting or any other movement.One
will also notice that the grave is neither more narrow nor spacious. Similar
is the case of those who are not buried in any grave, e.g., the people
who are crucified. To counter this objection, it is maintained that it
is not impossible. Rather, in physical life we find a similar example,
namely, sleeping. A sleeping person experiences both pleasure and pain,
but his companion cannot notice any of its effects on him. In fact, even
a person who is wide awake also feels pain and pleasure when he hears
or thinks of his painful or pleasant experiences, but its effects cannot
be noticed. Considering the unseen in the light of what is seen or guessing
about life after death in terms of the present life is the mistake of
this fallacious thinking.
Obviously Allah has screened the sights and sounds of the other world
from man, and with our limited physical faculties, we are incapable of
perceiving the vast kingdom of heavens, unless Allah wills it.
The opinion of the majority in this respect is supported by various hadith.
The Prophet, peace be upon him, for example, told us, "the deceased
hears the sound of their footsteps"; "his ribs are altered because
of the embrace of the grave"; "the sound of his voice resounds
when the angel strikes him with a hammer"; "he is struck between
his ears," or "they (the two angels) will cause him to sit up."
All these hadith refer to various bodily conditions. We will mention here
some of the sound hadith concerning this subject.
Zaid ibn Thabit reported, "The Prophet, peace be upon him, was going
with us toward the dwellings of Banu an-Najjar. He was riding a pony,
which spooked and he nearly fell off. He found four, five, or six graves
there, and asked, 'Which of you knows about those lying in these graves?'
Someone said, ' I do . ' Thereupon the Prophet, peace be upon him, asked,
' In what state did they die? ' He replied, 'They died as polytheists.
' He said, "These people are passing through an ordeal in the graves.
You would stop burying your dead in the graves if you heard the torment
in the grave that I hear. If it were not for this fact, I should have
certainly made you listen to it.' Then turning his face toward us, he
admonished, 'Seek refuge with Allah from the torment of Hell.' They replied,
'We seek refuge with Allah from the torment of Hell.' He said, 'Seek refuge
with Allah from the torment of the grave.' They said, 'We seek refuge
with Allah from the torment of the grave. ' He warned, 'Seek refuge with
Allah from temptations both visible and invisible.' They replied, 'We
seek refuge with Allah from temptation (fitnah) in every visible and invisible
form.' Then he added, 'Seek refuge with Allah from the temptation of the
Dajjal.' They said, 'We seek refuge with Allah from the temptation of
the Dajjal'.'' (Muslim)
Qatadah reported that Anas ibn Malik said, "The Prophet, peace be
upon him, said, 'When a human is laid in his grave and his companions
return and he hears their footsteps, two angels will come to him and make
him sit and ask him, "What did you say about this man, Muhammad,
may peace be upon him?" He will say, "I testify that he is Allah's
servant and His Messenger." Then it will be said to him, "Look
at your place in Hell-Fire. Allah has exchanged for you a place in Paradise
instead of it".' The Prophet, peace be upon him, added, 'The dead
person will see both his places. As for a non-believer or a hypocrite,
he will respond to the angels, "I do not know, but I used to say
what the people used to say ! " It will be said to him, "Neither
did you know nor did you seek guidance from those who had knowledge."
Then he will be hit with an iron hammer between his two ears, and he will
cry and that cry will be heard by all except human beings and jinns'."
(Bukhari and Muslim)
Al-Bara ibn 'Azib reported: The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, 'When
a Muslim is questioned in his grave, he bears witness that there is no
god but Allah, and that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.' According
to one report, the verse, 'Allah will establish in strength those who
believe with the Word, that stands firm in this world and in the Hereafter'
(Qur'an 14.27) was revealed concerning the punishment of the grave. The
deceased will be asked, 'Who is your Lord?' He will say, 'Allah is my
Lord and Muhammad is my Prophet.' That is what is meant by the statement
of Allah, 'Allah will make firm those who believe with a firm statement
in this life and in the hereafter'." (Al-Bukhari, Muslim, and Sunan)
Ahmad and Abu Hatim reported that the Prophet, peace be upon him, said,
"When a deceased person is laid in his grave, he hears the sound
of the footsteps of people as they go away. If he is a believer, the prayer
will stand by his head, the fasting will be to his right, alms to his
left, and all other good deeds of charity, kindness to relations, and
good behavior will be by his feet. The deceased will be questioned by
the angels at his head. The prayer will say, 'There is no entrance through
me.' Then he will be questioned by his right side where fasting will say,
'There is no entrance through me.' Then he will be questioned by his left
side where charity will say, 'There is no entrance through me.' Then he
will be questioned by his feet where the good acts of voluntary charity,
kindness to relations, and good behavior will say, 'There is no entrance
through me.' Then they will say to him, 'Get up.'And he will get up. The
sun will appear to him and it will begin to set. Then they will ask, 'This
man who was among you, what do you say about him? What is your testimony
about him?' The man will say, 'Let me pray.' The angels will say, 'You
will pray. Answer our question. What do you think about this man who was
among you? What do you say concerning him? What do you testify concerning
him?' The deceased will say, I bear witness that Muhammad was the Messenger
of Allah who brought the truth from Allah.' The deceased will be told,
'According to this you lived, died, and according to this you will be
resurrected, if Allah wills.'
"Then a door to Paradise will be opened for him. He will be told,
'This is your place in Paradise and what Allah has prepared for you. '
At this the desire and happiness of the deceased will increase. His grave
will be enlarged 70 arms-length and his grave will be lit up. His body
will change to his original form and his spirit will be placed in a bird
dangling by the trees of Paradise in a nice breeze." The Prophet,
peace be upon him, added, "That is what is meant by the statement
of Allah, 'Allah will establish in strength those who believe with the
Word that stands firm, in this world and in the Hereafter'." He also
mentioned the unbeliever and said, "His grave will be compressed,
so that his ribs will be crushed together. About this the Qur'an says,
'Verily, for him is a narrow life and We will resurrect him blind on the
Day of Resurrection'.'' Qur'an 20.124
Samura ibn Jundub reported, "The Prophet, peace be upon him, after
the prayers would turn toward us and ask us, 'Did any one of you have
a dream?' If someone had, he would relate it. Upon hearing it the Prophet,
peace be upon him, would say, 'Whatsoever Allah wills (is done).' One
day he questioned us saying, 'Did anyone of you have a dream?' They answered,
'No.' Then the Prophet, peace be upon him, said, 'But I saw tonight two
men. They came to me. They held my hand and took me to the holy land.
We came across a man Iying down, and behold, another man was standing
over his head, holding a big rock. Behold, he was throwing the rock at
the man's head, crushing it. The rock rolled away and the thrower followed
it and brought it back. By the time he reached the man, his head was restored
to its normal state. The thrower then did the same as he had done before.
I asked my two companions, "Who are these two people?" They
said, "Proceed!" So we proceeded and came to a man lying flat
on his back and another man standing over his head with an iron hook.
Behold, he would put the hook in one side of the man's mouth and tear
off that side of his face to the back of the neck and similarly tear his
nose from front to back and his eye from front to back. Then he turned
to the other side of the man's face and did just as he had done with the
other side. As soon as he tore one side, the other side returned to its
normal state. Then he returned to it to repeat what he had done before.
I said to my two companions, "Who are these two people?" They
said to me, "Proceed!" So we proceeded and saw a hole like an
oven, narrow at the top and wide at the bottom, and fire burning in it.
In that oven there were naked men and women, and behold, flames of fire
were reaching them from underneath, and when it reached them, they would
be raised high until they were close to the mouth of the oven. Then the
fire subsided and they went back inside it again. I asked, "Who are
these?" They said to me, "Proceed!" And so we proceeded
and came to a river of blood. And behold, in the middle of the river was
a man standing, and on the bank there was one who had many stones. The
man who was in the river would try to leave but the other man would throw
rocks into his mouth so that he would return to where he was. Every time
the former tried to leave, the other would throw rocks into his mouth.
Then he would return to where he was. I asked, "Who are these people?"
They replied, "Proceed! Proceed!" We proceeded until we came
to a man with a repulsive appearance, the most repulsive appearance you
ever saw in a man! Beside him there was a fire and he was kindling it
and running around it. I asked my companions, "Who is this (man)?"
They said to me, "Proceed! Proceed!" So we proceeded until we
reached a garden of deep green dense vegetation, bedecked with all sorts
of spring colors. In the middle of the garden there was a very tall man.
I could hardly see his head because of his great height. And around him
there were more children than I had ever seen before. I said to my companions,
"Who is this?" They replied, "Proceed! Proceed!" So
we proceeded until we came to a huge majestic garden, greater and better
than I have ever seen! My two companions said to me, "Go up,"
and I went up.'
"The Prophet, peace be upon him, added, 'So we ascended until we
reached a city built of gold and silver bricks. We went to its gate and
asked the gatekeeper to open the gate. It was opened and we entered the
city. There we found men with one side of their bodies as handsome as
the most handsome person you have ever seen, and the other side as ugly
as the ugliest person you have ever seen. My two companions ordered those
men to throw themselves into the river. Behold, there was a river flowing
through the city, and its water was as white as milk. Those men went and
threw themselves in it and then returned to us after the ugliness of their
bodies had disappeared and they turned in the best shape.' I said to them,
"I have seen many wonders tonight. What is the meaning of all that
I have seen?"
They replied, "We will inform you. As for the first man you came
upon whose head was being crushed with the rock, he is the symbol of the
one who studies the Qur'an and then neither recites it nor acts on it,
and sleeps, neglects the enjoined prayers. As for the man you came upon
whose mouth, nostrils, and eyes were torn off from front to back, he is
the symbol of the man who goes out of his house in the morning and tells
so many lies that it spreads all over the world. And those naked men and
women whom you saw in the oven, they are the adulterers and the adulteresses,
and the man whom you saw in the river of blood is the usurer. As for the
man by the base of the tree, he was Abraham. As for the children around
him, they are the children of the people. (The narrator added, "Some
Muslims asked the Prophet. peace be upon him, 'O Messenger of Allah! What
about the children of pagans?' The Prophet, peace be upon him, replied,
'And also the children of pagans'.") And the man whom you saw near
the fire kindling it and going round it, is Malik, the gatekeeper of Hell."'
"The Prophet, peace be upon him, added, 'My two companions explained,
"The men you saw half handsome and half ugly were those persons who
had mixed an act that was good with another that was bad, but Allah forgave
them." The first house is the common believer's house. As for this
house, it is the house of martyrs. I am Gabriel and this is Michael. Now,
raise your head."
When I raised my head, I saw a palace that looked like a cloud. They
said, "This is your home." I said, "Let me enter my house."
They said, "You still have some life to complete on earth. Upon completing
it, you may come to your home''.' (Al-Bukhari)
Ibn al-Qayyim explained, "This is a text that pertains to the punishment
of barzakh, for a vision by the Prophets is like revelation demonstrating
the reality."
Al-Tahawi reported from Ibn Mas'ud that the Prophet, peace be upon him,
said, "A person was ordered to be lashed a hundred times in his grave.
He continuously asked Allah to decrease his punishment until only one
lash remained. His grave was totally filled by fire. When the fire was
removed, he regained consciousness and asked, 'Why was I lashed?' He was
told, 'You offered a prayer once without proper purification, and you
passed by an oppressed person but you did not help him'."
Anas reported, "The Prophet, peace be upon him, once heard a voice
from a grave. He asked, 'When did this one die?' They said, 'He died during
the pre-Islamic era.' He was pleased to hear that and remarked, 'Had I
not feared that you would stop burying your dead, I would have asked Allah
to let you hear the punishment of the grave'." (Reported by Nasa'i
and Muslim)
'Abdallah ibn 'Umar reported, "The Prophet, peace be upon him, said,
'This is (Sa'd ibn Mu'azh), for whom the Throne (of Allah) moved. The
doors of Heaven were opened for him and seventy thousand angels participated
(in his funeral prayer). (His grave) was compressed and later on was expanded
for him'.'' (Nasa'i)
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